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Statistics
Nearly one-third of American women (31
percent) report being physically or sexually abused by a husband or
boyfriend at some point in their
lives.
Of women who
reported being raped and/or physically assaulted since the age of
18, three quarters (76%) were victimized by a current or former
husband, cohabitating partner, date or boyfriend.
Many child molesters also have adult sexual
relationships; they do not get their sexual
gratification only from children.
The average age that child molesters first
attack a child is when they (the attackers) are In their teens—and
often as young as age 12.
Anyone can help stop child abuse and
neglect by helping a stressed-out parent by baby-sitting,
making a meal for their family, or lending an understanding ear;
learning the signs and symptoms of child abuse so you can recognize
them when you see the “red flags"; reporting known or suspected
child abuse to the police or local child protective services
agency.
Nearly one-third of American women (31%)
report being physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend
at some point in their lives.
Sexual abuse is any sexual behavior which is unwanted and which
interferes with the victim's right to say "no" to sexual
advances.

Sexual Assault of
Children
Convicted rape
and sexual assault offenders serving time in state prisons report
that two-thirds of their victims were under the age of
18.
One of every
seven victims of sexual assault reported to law enforcement agencies
were under age six.
Among rape
victims less than 12 years of age, 90% of the children knew the
offender, according to police-recorded incident
data.
Frequently,
the person who sexually molests a child is also a
child.
40% of the
offenders who sexually assaulted children under age 6 were juveniles
(under the age of 18).

What is sexual abuse or sexual exploitation of a
spouse or intimate partner?
Sexual abuse includes:
- sexual assault: forcing someone to participate in
unwanted, unsafe, or degrading sexual activity
- sexual harassment: ridiculing another person to try
to limit their sexuality or reproductive choices
- sexual exploitation (such as forcing someone to look
at pornography, or forcing someone to participate in pornographic
film-making)
Sexual abuse of a spouse or partner often is linked to
physical abuse; they may occur together, or the sexual abuse may
occur after a bout of physical abuse.

Results of sexual abuse on
the victim
Some results of prolonged sexual abuse
are:
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low self-esteem
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a feeling of worthlessness
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an abnormal or distorted view of sex
-
personality disorders
-
difficulty relating to others except on sexual terms
-
tendency to become child abusers or prostitutes
-
other serious problems in adulthood

Child Sexual Abuse: Intervention and
Treatment Issues U.S. Department of
Health and Human ServicesFaller
1998
Definitions, Scope, and Effects of
Child Sexual Abuse
Definitions
Most professionals are fairly certain
they know what child sexual abuse is, and there is a fair amount of
agreement about this. For example, today very few people would
question the inclusion of sexual acts that do not involve
penetration. Despite this level of consensus, it is important to
define what sexual abuse is because there are variations in
definitions across professional disciplines.
Child sexual abuse can be defined from
legal and clinical perspectives. Both are important for appropriate
and effective intervention. There is considerable overlap between
these two types of definitions.
Statutory
Definitions
There are two types of statutes in
which definitions of sexual abuse can be found – child protection
(civil) and criminal.
The purposes of these laws differ.
Child protection statutes are concerned with sexual abuse as a
condition from which children need to be protected. Thus, these laws
include child sexual abuse as one of the forms of maltreatment that
must be reported by designated professionals and investigated by
child protection agencies. Courts may remove children from their
homes in order to protect them from sexual abuse. Generally, child
protection statutes apply only to situations in which offenders are
the children's caretakers.
Criminal statutes prohibit certain
sexual acts and specify the penalties. Generally, these laws include
child sexual abuse as one of several sex crimes. Criminal statutes
prohibit sex with a child, regardless of the adult's relationship to
the child, although incest may be dealt with in a separate
statute.
Definitions in child protection
statutes are quite brief and often refer to State criminal laws for
more elaborate definitions. In contrast, criminal statutes are
frequently quite lengthy.
Child Protection
Definitions
The Federal definition of child
maltreatment is included in the Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment
Act. Sexual abuse and exploitation is a subcategory of child abuse
and neglect. The statute does not apply the maximum age of 18 for
other types of maltreatment, but rather indicates that the age limit
in the State law shall apply. Sexual abuse is further defined to
include:
- "(A) the employment, use,
persuasion, inducement, enticement, or coercion of any child to
engage in, or assist any other person to engage in, any sexually
explicit conduct or simulation of such conduct for the purpose of
producing a visual depiction of such conduct; or
- (B) the rape, molestation,
prostitution, or other form of sexual exploitation of children, or
incest with children;..."
In order for States to qualify for
funds allocated by the Federal Government, they must have child
protection systems that meet certain criteria, including a
definition of child maltreatment specifying sexual abuse.
Criminal
Definitions
With the exception of situations
involving Native American children, crimes committed on Federal
property, interstate transport of minors for sexual purposes, and
the shipment or possession of child pornography, State criminal
statutes regulate child sexual abuse. Generally, the definitions of
sexual abuse found in criminal statutes are very detailed. The
penalties vary depending on:
- the age of the child, crimes
against younger children being regarded as worse;
- the level of force, force making
the crime more severe;
- the relationship between victim and
offender, an act against a relative or household member being
considered more serious; and
- the type of sexual act, acts of
penetration receiving longer sentences.
Often types of sexual abuse are
classified in terms of their degree (of severity), first degree
being the most serious and fourth degree the least, and class (of
felony), a class A felony being more serious than a class B or C,
etc.
Clinical Definitions
Although clinical definitions of
sexual abuse are related to statutes, the guiding principle is
whether the encounter has a traumatic impact on the child. Not all
sexual encounters experienced by children do. Traumatic impact is
generally affected by the meaning of the act(s) to the child, which
may change as the child progresses through developmental stages. The
sexual abuse may not be "traumatic" but still leave the child with
cognitive distortions or problematic beliefs; that is, it is "ok" to
touch others because it feels good.
Differentiating Abusive From
Nonabusive Sexual Acts
There are three factors that are
useful in clinically differentiating abusive from nonabusive acts –
power differential; knowledge differential; and gratification
differential.
These three factors are likely to be
interrelated. However, the presence of any one of these factors
should raise concerns that the sexual encounter was
abusive.
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Power differential. The
existence of a power differential implies that one party (the
offender) controls the other (the victim) and that the sexual
encounter is not mutually conceived and undertaken. Power can
derive from the role relationship between offender and victim. For
example, if the offender is the victim's father, the victim will
usually feel obligated to do as the offender says. Similarly,
persons in authority positions, such as a teacher, minister, or
Boy Scout leader, are in roles that connote power. Thus, sexual
activities between these individuals and their charges are
abusive.
- Power can also derive from the
larger size or more advanced capability of the offender, in which
case the victim may be manipulated, physically intimidated, or
forced to comply with the sexual activity. Power may also arise
out of the offender's superior capability to psychologically
manipulate the victim (which in turn may be related to the
offender's role or superior size). The offender may bribe, cajole,
or trick the victim into cooperation.
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Knowledge differential.
The act is considered abusive when one party (the offender) has a
more sophisticated understanding of the significance and
implications of the sexual encounter. Knowledge differential
implies that the offender is either older, more developmentally
advanced, or more intelligent than the victim. Generally,
clinicians expect the offender to be at least 5 years older than
the victim for the act to be deemed predatory. When the victim is
an adolescent, some persons define the encounter as abusive only
if the offender is at least 10 years older.16 Thus, a
consensual sexual relationship between a 15-year-old and a
22-year-old would not be regarded as abusive, if other case
factors supported that conclusion.
- Generally, the younger the child,
the less able she/he is to appreciate the meaning and potential
consequences of a sexual relationship, especially one with an
adult. Usually, the maximum age for the person to be considered a
victim (as opposed to a participant) is 16 or 18, but some
researchers have used an age cutoff of 13 for boy
victims.17 Apparently, the researchers felt that boys at age 13,
perhaps unlike girls, were able to resist encounters with
significantly older people and were, by then, involved in
consensual sexual acts with significantly older people. However,
clinicians report situations in which boys victimized after age 13
experience significant trauma from these sexual
contacts.
- Situations in which retarded or
emotionally disturbed persons participate in or are persuaded into
sexual activity may well be exploitive, even though the victim is
the same age or even older than the perpetrator.
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Gratification
differential. Finally, in most but not all sexual
victimization, the offender is attempting to sexually gratify
him/herself. The goal of the encounter is not mutual sexual
gratification, although perpetrators may attempt to arouse their
victims because such a situation is arousing to them.
Alternatively, they may delude themselves into believing that
their goal is to sexually satisfy their victims. Nevertheless, the
primary purpose of the sexual activity is to obtain gratification
for the perpetrator.
- In this regard, some activities
that involve children in which there is not a 5-year age
differential may nevertheless be abusive. For example, an
11-year-old girl is instructed to fellate her 13-year-old brother.
(This activity might also be abusive because there was a power
differential between the two children based on his superior
size.)
Sexual
Acts***
The sexual acts that will be described
in this section are abusive clinically when the factors discussed in
the previous section are present as the examples illustrate. The
sexual acts will be listed in order of severity and intrusiveness,
the least severe and intrusive being discussed first.
- Noncontact
acts
-
Offender making sexual comments to
the child*
- Example: A coach told a team
member he had a fine body, and they should find a time to
explore one another's bodies. He told the boy he has done this
with other team members, and they had enjoyed it.
-
Offender exposing intimate parts
to the child, sometimes accompanied by masturbation.
- Example: A grandfather required
that his 6-year-old granddaughter kneel in front of him and
watch while he masturbated naked.
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Voyeurism (peeping).
- Example: A stepfather made a
hole in the bathroom wall. He watched his stepdaughter when she
was toileting (and instructed her to watch him).**
-
Offender showing child
pornographic materials, such as pictures, books, or
movies.
- Example: Mother and father had
their 6- and 8-year-old daughters accompany them to viewings of
adult pornographic movies at a neighbor's house.
-
Offender induces child to undress
and/or masturbate self.
- Example: Neighbor paid a
13-year-old emotionally disturbed girl $5 to undress and parade
naked in front of him.
Sexual
contact***
-
Offender touching the child's
intimate parts (genitals, buttocks, breasts).
- Example: A father put his hand in
his 4-year-old daughter's panties and fondled her vagina while the
two of them watched "Sesame Street."
-
Offender inducing the child to touch
his/her intimate parts.
- Example: A mother encouraged her
10-year-old son to fondle her breasts while they were in bed
together.
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Frottage (rubbing genitals against
the victim's body or clothing).
- Example: A father, lying in bed,
had his clothed daughter sit on him and play "ride the
horse."
Digital or object
penetration
-
Offender placing finger(s) in
child's vagina or anus.
- Example: A father used digital
penetration with his daughter to "teach" her about sex.
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Offender inducing child to place
finger(s) in offender's vagina or anus.
- Example: An adolescent boy
required a 10-year-old boy to put Vaseline on his finger and
insert it into the adolescent's anus as initiation into a
club.
-
Offender placing instrument in
child's vagina or anus.
- Example: A psychotic mother placed
a candle in her daughter's vagina.
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Offender inducing child to place
instrument in offender's vagina or anus.
- Example: A babysitter had a
6-year-old boy penetrate her vaginally with a mop
handle.
Oral sex****
-
Tongue kissing
- Example: Several children who had
attended the same day care center attempted to French kiss with
their parents. They said that Miss Sally taught them to do
this.
-
Breast sucking, kissing, licking,
biting.
- Example:
A mother required her 6-year-old daughter to suck her breasts (in
the course of mutual genital fondling).**
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Cunnilingus (licking, kissing,
sucking, biting the vagina or placing the tongue in the vaginal
opening).
- Example: A father's girlfriend who
was high on cocaine made the father's son lick her vagina as she
sat on the toilet.
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Fellatio (licking, kissing, sucking,
biting the penis).
- Example: An adolescent, who had
been reading pornography, told his 7-year-old cousin to close her
eyes and open her mouth. She did and he put his penis in her
mouth.
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Anilingus (licking, kissing the anal
opening).
- Example: A mother overheard her
son and a friend referring to their camp counselor as a "butt
lick." The boys affirmed that the counselor had licked the anuses
of two of their friends (and engaged in other sexual acts with
them).** An investigation substantiated this
account.
Penile penetration
-
Vaginal intercourse
- Example: A 7-year-old girl was
placed in foster care by her father because she was incorrigible.
She was observed numerous times "humping" her stuffed animals. In
therapy she revealed that her father "humped" her. There was
medical evidence of vaginal penetration.
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Anal intercourse
- Example: Upon medical exam an
8-year-old boy was found to have evidence of chronic anal
penetration. He reported that his father "put his dingdong in
there" and allowed two of his friends to do likewise.
- Intercourse with animals.
Circumstances of Sexual
Acts
Professionals need to be aware that
sexual acts with children can occur in a variety of circumstances.
In this section, dyads, group sex, sex rings, sexual exploitation,
and ritual abuse will be discussed. These circumstances do not
necessarily represent discrete and separate phenomena.
- Dyadic sexual abuse.
The most common circumstance of sexual abuse is a dyadic
relationship, that is, a situation involving one victim and one
offender. Because dyadic sex is the prevalent mode for all kinds
of sexual encounters, not merely abusive ones, it is not
surprising that it is the most common.
- Group sex.
Circumstances involving group sex are found as well. These may
comprise several victims and a single perpetrator, several
perpetrators and a single victim, or multiple victims and multiple
offenders. Such configurations may be intrafamilial (e.g., in
cases of polyincest) or extrafamilial. Examples of extrafamilial
group victimization include some instances of sexual abuse in day
care, in recreational programs, and in institutional
care.
- Sex rings. Children
are also abused in sex rings; often this is group sex. Sex rings
generally are organized by pedophiles (persons whose primary
sexual orientation is to children), so that they will have ready
access to children for sexual purposes and, in some instances, for
profit. Victims are bribed or seduced by the pedophile into
becoming part of the ring, although he may also employ existing
members of the ring as recruiters. Rings vary in their
sophistication from situations involving a single offender, whose
only motivation is sexual gratification, to very complex rings involving multiple offenders as
well as children, child pornography, and
prostitution.
- Sexual exploitation of
children. The use of children in pornography and for
prostitution is yet another circumstance in which children may be
sexually abused.
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Child pornography. This
is a Federal crime, and all States have laws against child
pornography.19 Pornography
may be produced by family members, acquaintances of the children,
or professionals. It may be for personal use, trading, or sale on
either a small or large scale. It can also be used to instruct or
entice new victims or to blackmail those in the pictures.
Production may be national or international, as well as local, and
the sale of pornography is potentially very lucrative. Because of
the availability of video equipment and Polaroid cameras,
pornography is quite easy to produce and difficult to
track.
- Child pornography can involve only
one child, sometimes in lewd and lascivious poses or engaging in
masturbatory behavior; of children together engaging in sexual
activity; or of children and adults in sexual activity.
- It is important to remember that
pictures that are not pornographic and are not illegally obscene
can be very arousing to a pedophile. For
example, an apparently innocent picture of a naked child in the
bathtub or even a clothed child in a pose can be used by a
pedophile for arousal.
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Child prostitution.
This may be undertaken by parents, other relatives, acquaintances
of the child, or persons who make their living pandering children.
Older children, often runaways and/or children who have been
previously sexually abused, may prostitute themselves
independently.
- Situations in which young
children are prostituted are usually intrafamilial, although there
are reports of child prostitution constituting one aspect of
sexual abuse in some day care situations.
Adolescent prostitution is more likely to occur in a sex ring (as
mentioned above), at the hand of a pimp, in a brothel, or with the
child operating independently. Boys are more likely to be
independent operators, and girls are more likely to be in involved
in situations in which others control their contact with
clients.
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Ritual abuse. This is a
circumstance of child sexual abuse that
has only recently been identified, is only partially understood,
and is quite controversial. The controversy arises out of problems
in proving such cases and the difficulty some professionals have
in believing in the existence of ritual abuse.
- As best can be determined, ritual
sexual abuse is abuse that occurs in the context of a belief
system that, among other tenets, involves sex with children. These
belief systems are probably quite variable. Some may be highly
articulated, others "half-baked." Some ritual abuse appears to
involve a version of satanism that supports sex with children.
However, it is often difficult to discern how much of a role
ideology plays. That is, the offenders may engage in "ritual" acts
because they are sadistic, because they are sexually aroused by
them, or because they want to prevent disclosure, not because the
acts are supported by an ideology. Because very few of these
offenders confess, their motivation is virtually
unknown.
- Often sexual abuse plays a
secondary role in the victimization in ritual abuse, physical and
psychological abuse dominating. The following is a nonexhaustive
list of characteristics that may be present in cases of ritual
abuse:
- costumes and robes: animal,
witch's, devil's costumes; ecclesiastical robes (black, red,
purple, white);
- ceremonies: black masses,
burials, weddings, sacrifices;
- symbols: 666, inverted crosses,
pentagrams, and inverted pentagrams;
- artifacts: crosses, athames
(daggers), skulls, candles, black draping, representations of
Satan;
- bodily excretions and fluids:
blood, urine, feces, semen;
- drugs, medicines, injections,
potions;
- fire;
- chants and songs;
- religious sites: churches,
graveyards, graves, altars, coffins; and
- torture, tying, confinement,
murder.
Most allegations of ritual abuse come
from young children, reporting this type of abuse in day care, and
from adults, who are often psychiatrically very disturbed and
describe ritual abuse during their childhoods. Issues of credibility
are raised with both groups. Moreover, accounts of ritual abuse are
most disturbing, to both those recounting the abuse and those
hearing it.
Scope of the Problem of Child Sexual
Abuse
Clinicians and researchers
working in sexual abuse believe that the problem is underreported.
This belief is based on assumptions about sexual taboos and on
research on adults sexually abused as children, the overwhelming
majority of whom state that they did not report their victimization
at the time of its occurrence. Moreover, it is
probably true that situations involving female offenders as well as
ones with boy victims are underidentified, in part because of
societal perceptions about the gender of offenders and
victims.
Estimates of the extent of sexual
abuse come from three main sources – research on adults, who recount
their experiences of sexual victimization as children; annual
summaries of the accumulated reports of sexual abuse filed with
child protection agencies; and two federally funded studies of child
maltreatment entitled the National Incidence Studies. In
addition, anecdotal information is supplied by some
convicted/self-acknowledged offenders, who report sexually abusing scores and even hundreds of
children before their arrest.
Prevalence of Child Sexual
Abuse
Studies of the prevalence of sexual
abuse are those involving adults that explore
the extent to which persons experience sexual victimization during
their childhoods. Findings are somewhat inconsistent for several
reasons. First, data are gathered using a variety of methodologies:
telephone interviews, face-to-face interviews, and written
communications (i.e., questionnaires). Second, a study may focus
entirely on sexual abuse, or sexual abuse may be one of many issues
covered. Third, some studies are of special populations, such as
psychiatric patients, incarcerated sex offenders, and college
students, whereas others are surveys of the general population.
Finally, the definition of sexual abuse varies from study to study.
Dimensions on which definitions may differ are maximum age for a
victim, the age difference required between victim and offender,
whether or not noncontact acts are included, and whether the act is
unwanted.
The factors just mentioned have
the following effects on rates of sexual abuse reported.
Face-to-face interviews, particularly when the interviewer and
interviewee are matched on sex and race, and multiple questions
about sexual abuse may result in higher rates of
disclosure. However, it cannot be definitively
stated that special populations such as prostitutes, drug addicts,
or psychiatric populations have higher rates of sexual victimization
than the general population, because some studies of the general
population report quite high rates. Not
surprisingly, when the definition is broader (e.g., inclusion of
noncontact behaviors and "wanted" sexual acts) the rates go
up.
Rates of victimization for
females range from 6 to 62 percent,with most
professionals estimating that between one in three and one in four
women are sexually abused in some way during their childhoods. The
rates for men are somewhat lower, ranging from 3 to 24
percent, with most professionals believing that
1 in 10 men and perhaps as many as 1 in 6 are sexually abused as
children. As noted earlier, many believe that male victimization is
more underreported than female, in part because of societal failure
to identify the behavior as abusive. However, the boy himself may
not define the behavior as sexual victimization but as sexual
experience, especially if it involves a woman offender. Moreover, he
may be less likely to disclose than a female victim, because he has
been socialized not to talk about his problems. This reticence may
be increased if the offender is a male, for he must overcome two
taboos, having been the object of a sexual encounter with an adult
and a male. Finally, he may not be as readily believed as a female
victim.
The Incidence of Child Sexual
Abuse
Incidence of a problem is defined as
the number of reports during a given time frame, yearly in the case
of sexual abuse. From 1976 to 1986, data were available on the
number of sexual abuse cases reported per year to child protection
agencies, as part of data collection on all types of maltreatment.
These cases were registered with the National Center on Child Abuse
and Neglect, and data were analyzed by the American Humane
Association. Over that 10-year period, there was a dramatic increase
in the number of reports of sexual abuse and in the proportion of
all maltreatment cases represented by sexual abuse. In 1976, the
number of sexual abuse cases was 6,000, which represented a rate of
0.86 per 10,000 children in the United States. By 1986, the number
of reported cases was 132,000, a rate of 20.89 per 10,000 children.
This represents a 22-fold increase. Moreover, whereas in 1976 sexual
abuse cases were only 3 percent of all reports, by 1986, they
comprised 15 percent of reports.
Striking though these findings may be,
their limitations must be appreciated. First, current data are not
available. Second, cases included in this data set are limited to
those that would warrant a CPS referral, generally cases in which
the abuser is a caretaker or in which a caretaker fails to protect a
child from sexual abuse. Thus, cases involving an extrafamilial
abuser and a protective parent are not included. Third, the data
only refer to reported cases. This means those cases that are
unknown to professionals and those known but not reported are not
included. Moreover, these are reports, not substantiations of sexual
abuse. The national average substantiation rate is generally between
40 and 50 percent. Substantiation rates vary from State to State and
among locations.
The National Incidence Studies (NIS-1
and NIS-2) provide additional data on the rates of child
maltreatment, including sexual abuse. Information for these studies
was collected in 1980 and 1986; thus, they do not provide annual
incidence rates, as the Child Protection data do. In addition, these
studies project a national rate of child maltreatment based on
information from 29 counties, rather than using reports from all
States. Nevertheless, these studies do allow for some analysis of
trends because data were collected at two different time points.
Moreover, one of the most important features of the NIS studies is
that they gathered information on unreported as well as reported
cases.
Differences between the first
and second studies indicate there was a more than threefold increase
in the number of identified cases of sexual
maltreatment.***** An
estimated 42,900 cases were identified by professionals in 1980
compared with 133,600 cases in 1986. These figures represent a rate
of 7 cases per 10,000 children in 1980 and 21 cases per 10,000 in
1986. Despite the
fact that the 1986 number and rate are quite close to the figures
for suspected sexual abuse reported to
child protection agencies in 1986, only about 51 percent of cases
identified by professionals in the National Incidence Study were
reported to child protective services (CPS). Furthermore, the
proportion of cases identified but not reported to CPS did not
change significantly between 1980 and 1986.
It is clear that available statistics
on the prevalence and incidence of sexual abuse do not completely
reflect the extent of the problem. However, they do provide a
definite indication that the problem of sexual victimization is a
significant one that deserves our attention and
intervention.
The Effects of Sexual Abuse on its
Victim
Concern about sexual abuse derives
from more than merely the fact that it violates taboos and statutes.
It comes principally from an appreciation of its effects on victims.
In this section, the philosophical issue of why society is concerned
about sexual abuse and documented effects will
be discussed.
What's Wrong About Sex Between
Adults and Children?
It is important for professionals,
particularly if they dedicate a substantial part of their careers to
intervening in sexual abuse situations, to distance themselves from
their visceral reactions of disgust and outrage and rationally
consider why sex between children and adults is so
objectionable.
Organizations such as the North
American Man Boy Love Association (NAMBLA) and the René Guyon
Society challenge the assertion that sexual abuse is bad because of
its effects on children. These organizations argue that what we
label as harmful effects are not the effects of sexual abuse but the
effects of societal condemnation of the behavior. Thus, children
feel guilty about their involvement, suffer from "damaged goods
syndrome," have low self-esteem, are depressed
and suicidal, and experience helpless rage because society has
stigmatized sex between adults and children. If society would cease
to condemn the behavior, then children could enjoy guilt-free sexual
encounters with adults. Such organizations also argue that we, as
adults, are interfering with children's rights, specifically their
right to control their own bodies and their sexual freedom, by
making sex between children and adults unacceptable and
illegal.
How can we respond to this argument?
It is true that many of the effects of sexual abuse at least
indirectly derive from how society views the activity. However, the
impact also reflects the experience itself. The
reader will recall the earlier discussion of differentiating abusive
from nonabusive encounters on the basis of power, knowledge, and
gratification.
Because the adult has more
power, he/she has the capacity to impose the sexual behavior, which
may be painful, intrusive, or overwhelming because of its novelty
and sexual nature. This power may also be manifest in manipulation
of the child into compliance. The child has little knowledge about
the societal and personal implications of being involved in sex with
an adult; in contrast, the adult has sophisticated knowledge of the
significance of the encounter. The child's lack of power and
knowledge means the child cannot give informed consent. Finally, although in some cases the adult may perceive
him/herself providing pleasure to the child, the main object is the
gratification of the adult. That is what is wrong about sex between
adults and children.
The Impact of Sexual
Abuse
Regardless of the underlying
causes of the impact of sexual abuse, the
problems are very real for victims and their families. A number of
attempts have been made to conceptualize the effects of sexual
abuse. In addition, recent
efforts to understand the impact of sexual abuse have gone beyond
clinical impressions and case studies. They are based upon research
findings, specifically controlled research in which sexually abused
children are compared to a normal or nonsexually abused clinical
population. There are close to 40 such studies to date.
Finkelhor,
whose conceptualization of the traumatogenic effects of sexual abuse
is the most widely employed, divides sequelae into four general
categories, each having varied psychological and behavioral
effects.
- Traumatic
sexualization. Included in the psychological outcomes of
traumatic sexualization are aversive feelings about sex,
overvaluing sex, and sexual identity problems. Behavioral
manifestations of traumatic sexualization constitute a range of
hypersexual behaviors as well as avoidance of or negative sexual
encounters.
- Stigmatization. Common
psychological manifestations of stigmatization are what Sgroi
calls "damaged goods syndrome" and feelings of guilt and responsibility for the abuse or
the consequences of disclosure. These feelings
are likely to be reflected in self-destructive behaviors such as
substance abuse, risk-taking acts, self-mutilation, suicidal
gestures and acts, and provocative behavior designed to elicit
punishment.
- Betrayal. Perhaps the
most fundamental damage from sexual abuse is its undermining of
trust in those people who are supposed to be protectors and
nurturers. Other psychological impacts of betrayal include anger
and borderline functioning. Behavior that reflects this trauma
includes avoidance of investment in others, manipulating others,
re-enacting the trauma through subsequent involvement in
exploitive and damaging relationships, and engaging in angry and
acting-out behaviors.
- Powerlessness. The
psychological impact of the trauma of powerlessness includes both
a perception of vulnerability and victimization and a desire to
control or prevail, often by identification with the aggressor. As
with the trauma of betrayal, behavioral manifestations may involve
aggression and exploitation of others. On the other hand, the
vulnerability effect of powerlessness may be avoidant responses, such as dissociation and
running away; behavioral manifestations of anxiety, including
phobias, sleep problems, elimination problems, and eating
problems; and revictimization.
Our understanding of the impact of
sexual abuse is frustrated by the wide variety of possible effects
and the way research is conducted. Researchers do not necessarily
choose to study the same effects, nor do they use the same
methodology and instruments. Consequently, a particular symptom,
such as substance abuse, may not be studied or may be examined using
different techniques. Furthermore, although most studies find
significant differences between sexually abused and nonabused
children, the percentages of sexually abused children with a given
symptom vary from study to study, and there is no symptom
universally found in every victim. In addition, often lower
proportions of sexually abused children exhibit a particular symptom
than do nonabused clinical comparison groups. Finally, although some
victims suffer pervasive and debilitating effects, others are found
to be asymptomatic.
In addition, a variety of factors
influence how sexual maltreatment impacts on an individual. These
factors include the age of the victim (both at the time of the abuse
and the time of assessment), the sex of the victim, the sex of the
offender, the extent of the sexual abuse, the relationship between
offender and victim, the reaction of others to knowledge of the
sexual abuse, other life experiences, and the length of time between
the abuse and information gathering. For example, the findings for
child victims and adult survivors are somewhat different.
It is important for professionals to
appreciate both the incomplete state of knowledge about the
consequences of sexual abuse and the variability in effects. Such
information can be helpful in recognizing the wide variance in
symptoms of sexual abuse and can prevent excessive optimism or
pessimism in predicting its impact.
* When children are
victims, sexual comments are usually made in person. However obscene
remarks may be made on the telephone or in notes and
letters.
** Activities in
parenthesis are not illustrative of the sexual act being
defined.
*** Sexual contact
can be either above or beneath clothing.
**** The offender
may inflict oral sex upon the child or require the child to perform
it on him/her or both.
***** These
statistics from the revised second National Incidence Study reflect
the revised definition of child abuse and neglect, which includes
the combined total children who were demonstrably harmed and
threatened with harm.
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